The Lee Three

The Lee Three

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Three Names


Shortly after I sent out our Christmas picture I realized that I've never blogged about the names we have given the three kids we are adopting. This was not intentional, it has just been one of those things (along with many other things) that I haven't gotten around to blogging about.

So, here is what we are naming our kids: Zahra, Zoe & Isaiah. We will keep their African names (which I can't put on the blog until they get home) as their middle names. The jury is still out as to whether they will have a second American/family middle name (like Abram does).

Zahra (pronounced Zar-a, rhymes with car-a): Means "beautiful or shining flower"
This name has been on my "names I like" list since before we started this adoption process. I have no idea where I found it. I think it is actually an Arabic name. When we first started learning about the plight of orphans in C-country, the picture I had of the kids there was very grey and drab, with no color. I pictured a lot of concrete and dirt. When I saw that Zahra means beautiful or shining flower, I LOVED it. To me it was a picture of God taking a nearly lifeless orphan, bringing her into a FAMILY and then seeing her life bloom with the color and beauty of a flower. That is my hope for Zahra, our oldest daughter.

Zoe (prounounded Zo-E): Means "Life"
This meaning does not need much explanation. What better gift to give an orphan than LIFE - both physical and spiritual. We choose Zoe for our six year old girl because I can tell from the few pictures we received that she has some lively spunk in her. The name just fits her.

Isaiah: Means "God is salvation"
Jason and I have both loved this name for a long time and it was near the top of the list for Abram's name. The main reason we love the name Isaiah for our boy we are adopting is that we were studying the book of Isaiah at Cornerstone when we started this adoption process. God used many of the truths and themes of Isaiah to move in our hearts to care for orphans and to lead and guide us to adopt three kids from Africa.

This passage from Isaiah 58, in particular, was very defining for us:

6 “Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen:
to loose the chains of injustice
and untie the cords of the yoke,
to set the oppressed free
and break every yoke?
7 Is it not to share your food with the hungry
and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—
when you see the naked, to clothe him,
and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?
8 Then your light will break forth like the dawn,
and your healing will quickly appear;
then your righteousness[a] will go before you,
and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard.
9 Then you will call, and the LORD will answer;
you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I.

“If you do away with the yoke of oppression,
with the pointing finger and malicious talk,
10 and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry
and satisfy the needs of the oppressed,
then your light will rise in the darkness,
and your night will become like the noonday.
11 The LORD will guide you always;
he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land
and will strengthen your frame.
You will be like a well-watered garden,
like a spring whose waters never fail.
12 Your people will rebuild the ancient ruins
and will raise up the age-old foundations;
you will be called Repairer of Broken Walls,
Restorer of Streets with Dwellings.


It is not only the call to spend ourselves for the hungry, but also the promise that God will satisfy our needs in a sun-scorched land and strengthen us that we are clinging to.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

A Few Needs

There are some things we need to be ready to have our kids come home from Africa. I thought this new-year-clear-out-your-kids-old-stuff-since-they-got-new-for-Christmas time would be a good time to let people know what some of our needs are. We would love any hand-me-downs you might want to get rid of.

Over the summer and part of the fall Jason and I worked extra jobs to make money to buy the bigger things we needed, like bunk beds for the girls, bedding, curtains, a dresser, a six-foot bench for our kitchen table (!) and other things we needed to get our house ready for three more kids. I've been frequenting Goodwill and am always able to find great clothes for the kids for $1.69 each. I love it!

Most of the remaining things we need are for the girls, since we've never had 6 and 7 year old girls before. And we (or, should I say, I) will be homeschooling them. The little guy is pretty well taken care of because he can play with Abram's toys and books.

So, here is our list of needs for hand-me-downs:

White dresser (for the boys room)
1 crib mattress (for a toddler bed)
Books (for 5-8 year old girls)
Games (for 5-8 year old girls)
Puzzles (for 5-8 year old girls)
Leap Frog games/toys that would help the kids learn English, etc.
DVDS-especially Leap Frog or other educational DVDs that will help the kids with English
2 scooters for the girls
2 bikes for the girls
2 trikes for the boys
Mini-trampoline (weird, I know . . . the kids need to have multiple forms of physical activity to do each day to help them regulate their bodies)
Swing set (if anyone happens to be getting rid of theirs)

You can email me at jenniferailenelee@gmail.com or leave a comment if you have any of these things you'd like to hand on down to us. Thanks so much!

Monday, January 3, 2011

Good Movie Coming Up

I wanted to let you know about a movie on Fox coming up that involves adoption. It is called Change of Plans. It has been talked about a lot on some adoption blogs I follow and I'm looking forward to watching it this Saturday night.

Here is some info I found about the movie:

"Change of Plans," the latest made-for-TV family movie from Walmart and Proctor & Gamble, is the fourth installment of Family Movie Night, debuting on Fox TV on Saturday, January 8, 2011 at 8/7C. "Change of Plans," stars Brooke White, Joe Flanigan and Phylicia Rashad, according to a December 10, 2010 press release from Fox TV.

"Change of Plans" shows how lives can be turned around in an instant, or phone call. The story is described as both humorous and heartwarming. The story is a lesson in how fulfilling life can be when you look beyond your own life and invest in other people.

Sally Danville (Brooke White, American Idol) and her husband, Jason (Joe Flanigan, Stargate: Atlantis) become instant parents when Sally's best friend from college dies in a tragic accident while serving in the Peace Corps. Sally's friend leaves Sally as legal guardian of her four children, three of whom have been adopted from third world countries. Suddenly, Sally and Jason must learn how to parent their instant family and help the kids adjust to life in American and culture clashes.